an extremely shameful confession

Looks like I'm having a serious identity crisis. Sexual identity, I mean. Never mind that I already had one when I first got into reading slash. Someone explained to me then that some of the best m/m slash writers - let alone readers - were lesbians... so I figured I could still safely see myself as one.;) And so I did. But now...

( the rest is possibly TMI, but most likely not really shocking to anyone around here except myself... LOL )