quiz time again :)
Nov. 18th, 2007 05:03 pmSnagged from ![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
rainweaver13:
Center of attention??? OMGpleaseNOOO!... *hides under the desk*
Has the last word?... In my mind, maybe. Not that anyone needs to know.:P
Easily angered? WTF?... Yes, it's pretty easy to make me sulk or pout, but that's hardly anger, is it? And I would usually go to great lengths not to show it, because I'm dead scared of open conflict & confrontation. I'd much rather avoid someone or pretend nothing's wrong than have a row, thank you very much. Anger is very dangerous, as someone said recently in a movie.:D It makes people say things they may not truly mean, but once the words are out, it can be very difficult to forget them. Especially for someone like me. So if you do make me angry, I will most likely withdraw and wait for it to subside before we talk again. Because I like to mean what I say. But lashing out at me without a second thought is pretty much the only way to make me truly angry. And no, I will not lash back. I will sulk, and then get over it; but every time that happens, I will trust you - or like you - a little less. Until finally it's all gone, and only cold resentment remains. That's pretty much the worst case scenario, and it happened only once with someone I truly cared about. But that person was trying VERY hard indeed, and it took her years to destroy my faith in her good intentions.;) So if you do give a damn about the effect of your words and/or actions on other people, you are not likely to really piss me off. Not for long, anyway.:D
The rest is basically true. As for the 'good kisser' part, I'd like to think that depends on the intensity of emotional involvement with my kissing partner.:) I don't do too well in casual encounters; but then, casual encounters don't do much for me either, which is why I have been happily celibate for, ummm... *mutters incoherently* SOME years now. *clears throat* ANYWAY... if 'partner for life' is one side of the coin, then 'single for life' is the other, I guess. It's just the way the stupid coin fell down for me. *shrug* But that's all right. My brain is way too crowded with multiple personalities to ever let me feel lonely again.;P
rainweaver13:Lets101 - Free Online Dating
Center of attention??? OMGpleaseNOOO!... *hides under the desk*
Has the last word?... In my mind, maybe. Not that anyone needs to know.:P
Easily angered? WTF?... Yes, it's pretty easy to make me sulk or pout, but that's hardly anger, is it? And I would usually go to great lengths not to show it, because I'm dead scared of open conflict & confrontation. I'd much rather avoid someone or pretend nothing's wrong than have a row, thank you very much. Anger is very dangerous, as someone said recently in a movie.:D It makes people say things they may not truly mean, but once the words are out, it can be very difficult to forget them. Especially for someone like me. So if you do make me angry, I will most likely withdraw and wait for it to subside before we talk again. Because I like to mean what I say. But lashing out at me without a second thought is pretty much the only way to make me truly angry. And no, I will not lash back. I will sulk, and then get over it; but every time that happens, I will trust you - or like you - a little less. Until finally it's all gone, and only cold resentment remains. That's pretty much the worst case scenario, and it happened only once with someone I truly cared about. But that person was trying VERY hard indeed, and it took her years to destroy my faith in her good intentions.;) So if you do give a damn about the effect of your words and/or actions on other people, you are not likely to really piss me off. Not for long, anyway.:D
The rest is basically true. As for the 'good kisser' part, I'd like to think that depends on the intensity of emotional involvement with my kissing partner.:) I don't do too well in casual encounters; but then, casual encounters don't do much for me either, which is why I have been happily celibate for, ummm... *mutters incoherently* SOME years now. *clears throat* ANYWAY... if 'partner for life' is one side of the coin, then 'single for life' is the other, I guess. It's just the way the stupid coin fell down for me. *shrug* But that's all right. My brain is way too crowded with multiple personalities to ever let me feel lonely again.;P
