Reposted for editing the spelling errors and making this post readable.
Um, did I get this right: she is using your phone company account, paid by you, for her e-mail, and is withholding *your* e-mail from you that way?
I would say, there is one way out of this.
1) send a written information about your termination of the account to whatever company it is where you have the account. Use your payment information; if you can get an account miovement information from your bank account, you should get a code that tells them what account you wish to delete. After all, the bank account needs to have a number for which phone company account the payment is given, does it not? that way they have to know what account you wish to delete: it is the one they received the money for, so far. 2) stop the payment for the old phone/email account at your bank account. 3) Get another, new phone company and mail provider and a new e-mail account from another provider, so you have an e-mail account and a phone account where just you have access and can use it. 4) Inform all your friends and business contacts of this change; make sure they stop using your old e-mail address; 5) THEN leave your *old* e-mail adress (the one she is still using) liberately at many websites where it will be picked up by any spam-bot that is out there to look for new victims and receivers of spam mail; 6) watch her cursing and deleting the e-mail-adress she should never have had access to in the first place, because it becomes now unusable due to all the spam; 7) and, very important: make sure that *she* does not know *your* new e-mail-address and your new Internet provider.
Evil, I know, but so is using somebody else's account and money at one's own convenience just because one wishes to do so.
I hope that way you can solve the problem. After all, if you send your termination information to the company in written form, then they cannot insist that you should give the password, can they? and if you fail to pay them for that account, it will be terminated, sooner or later, anyway, or do I get this wrong?
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Date: 2007-05-17 09:56 pm (UTC)Um, did I get this right: she is using your phone company account, paid by you, for her e-mail, and is withholding *your* e-mail from you that way?
I would say, there is one way out of this.
1) send a written information about your termination of the account to whatever company it is where you have the account. Use your payment information; if you can get an account miovement information from your bank account, you should get a code that tells them what account you wish to delete. After all, the bank account needs to have a number for which phone company account the payment is given, does it not? that way they have to know what account you wish to delete: it is the one they received the money for, so far.
2) stop the payment for the old phone/email account at your bank account.
3) Get another, new phone company and mail provider and a new e-mail account from another provider, so you have an e-mail account and a phone account where just you have access and can use it.
4) Inform all your friends and business contacts of this change; make sure they stop using your old e-mail address;
5) THEN leave your *old* e-mail adress (the one she is still using) liberately at many websites where it will be picked up by any spam-bot that is out there to look for new victims and receivers of spam mail;
6) watch her cursing and deleting the e-mail-adress she should never have had access to in the first place, because it becomes now unusable due to all the spam;
7) and, very important: make sure that *she* does not know *your* new e-mail-address and your new Internet provider.
Evil, I know, but so is using somebody else's account and money at one's own convenience just because one wishes to do so.
I hope that way you can solve the problem. After all, if you send your termination information to the company in written form, then they cannot insist that you should give the password, can they? and if you fail to pay them for that account, it will be terminated, sooner or later, anyway, or do I get this wrong?
(Shakes head at your former roommate)