you know, you can give her the reasons you told here: that you can't afford the mortgage, do not want to commit yourself to such a long-time debt, AND do not like to be indebted to her more than you are already
Oh, I have said all this. More than once. The most frustrating aspect of it is precisely the fact that I keep saying my thing, and then she keeps saying her thing - as though she never really heard me, or as though whatever I said did not matter. Her only possible response to my concerns seems to be: "Why are you being so stubborn?... I only want the best for you." It makes me feel so helpless and tired I usually just give up, so as not to prolong the torment, lol. If I had half the strength of will that she does, it would be a different story - but I don't believe in wasting too much energy on fighting the forces of nature.:P
But we will see. If I can't get a monthly payment below $600, I will not do it, no matter what. She can't force me, after all. But I will need a professional's confirmation that it can't be done, because, obviously, she won't take my word for it. *sigh*
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Date: 2009-08-30 05:22 am (UTC)you know, you can give her the reasons you told here: that you can't afford the mortgage, do not want to commit yourself to such a long-time debt, AND do not like to be indebted to her more than you are already
Oh, I have said all this. More than once. The most frustrating aspect of it is precisely the fact that I keep saying my thing, and then she keeps saying her thing - as though she never really heard me, or as though whatever I said did not matter. Her only possible response to my concerns seems to be: "Why are you being so stubborn?... I only want the best for you." It makes me feel so helpless and tired I usually just give up, so as not to prolong the torment, lol. If I had half the strength of will that she does, it would be a different story - but I don't believe in wasting too much energy on fighting the forces of nature.:P
But we will see. If I can't get a monthly payment below $600, I will not do it, no matter what. She can't force me, after all. But I will need a professional's confirmation that it can't be done, because, obviously, she won't take my word for it. *sigh*